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搭電梯遇到上司 唔想尷尬點算好?
15 Apr 2016

返工放工都要乘搭電梯,如果公司規模大有幾層樓,你還要經常乘電梯上上落落,相信不少打工仔都試過這種尷尬場面,就是在電梯中遇到上司,這亦是最令人驚心動魄的數十秒。究竟大家身處這個密室,應該如何自處?這個問題引起了心理學家注意。

 

 

 

社會心理學家研究過令我們感到安全的人際距離,發現陌生人之間的距離要保持在1.2米外,0.5米至1.2米是朋友間的距離,親人、戀人之間的距離最近,是0.5米以內。如果人與人之間沒有相應關係,就難以突破相應距離,會引起不安、反感和戒備等心理反應。

 

但你試想想,在電梯已經夠小,如果是上下班的繁忙時間,大家的親密程度真的可與親人間距離媲美,的確會引發大家的不安。如果在這個距離遇到上司,相信不快、恐懼和不適會加倍放大。

 

害怕與上司「同lift」,是因為我們對權威的恐懼。

 

 

一些公司管理嚴格,又或者上司與下屬甚少交流,下屬遇到上司自然會緊張,這是正常不過的反應。如何消除?不妨主動禮貌地打招呼,以免上司覺得你無禮貌之餘,亦感到尊嚴受損。表達了禮貌,你就可以把主動權交給上司,讓他繼續領導這個空間,他想聊天就聊天,他想沉默就沉默吧。

 

當然你也可以轉移注意力,例如想想其他事情,數吓綿羊都得。除了自我調節心理,你也可試試其他方法,如果時間充裕,又不用上落太多樓層,不如索性行樓梯,斷估老闆不會行樓梯了吧,這樣做也能減肥呢!

 

 

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