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六類不能在辦公室說的話
24 Feb 2016

要在工作上有突出表現,除了工作能力,少不免一張利嘴。雖說「禍從口出」,但同樣「福」也從口來。好好領略人際溝通方式,記得避免說出以下六類話:

1. 命令 

跟平起平坐的同事要好好相處,對人説話時別用命令,例如「我覺得你應該……」。這種話給人高高在上的感覺,不但令你與別人有距離感,更會惹人反感。

2. 質問 

有時候我們想提出建議,卻不自覺說出「為甚麽不這樣做呢?」的話,令對方感到你專制和咄咄逼人。下次想提出建議時,不妨說:「我認為這樣也不錯,你們認爲呢?」先提出自己看法,再詢問大家意見,顯得尊重別人。

 

3. 標籤

不少人在別人做錯事後,就一直以那件事標籤對方,禍從口出:「你怎麽老是做錯?」令別人感到委屈和羞惱。

4. 不耐煩 

日常工作繁瑣,我們往往忙於工作,忽略同事,「得啦!放低啦!」、「我聽到啦!」,這些話語讓人感覺你不重視對方,只想敷衍了事。

5. 模棱兩可 

「今晚食咩?」「是但啦,唔辣就得!」這種對話在日常生活中聽過不少,但發問者往往得不到清晰的答案,感到有點模棱兩可,不過大家都心知肚明,被問一方其實意見多多。

6. 比較 

成長始終離不開比較,從兒時比較成績,到長大後比較誰先結婚?誰人工高?誰做得好,這種比較心態如何令人討厭,不用説都會明白。所以還是那一句「己所不欲,勿施於人」。

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